Thursday, February 16, 2012

This is the Stuff

"But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well." (Matthew 6:33, NIV)
"Steep your life in God-reality, God-initiative, God-provisions. Don't worry about missing out. You'll find all your everyday human concerns will be met." (The Message)

Our culture constantly bombards us with messages about what's important and where we should place our attention. Often, those things we're told are "news-worthy" provide a welcome distraction from the day-to-day, sometimes ordinary concerns that weigh us down. Rather than digging deeper into our own circumstances until we see God beyond them and can discern what He's trying to say to us, we look elsewhere. It's easier. We're like the dog that's intent on finding a bone in the backyard, only to see a squirrel and chase off after it instead.

I've been pretty preoccupied for several weeks now with concerns about my kids and my dad, my own health issues, demands on my husband's time, pressures and deadlines at work...nothing too earth-shattering, but still enough to wear on me. You have no idea how tempting it is, when I feel this way, to just "deal" with my life rather than really live it. I spend more time on Facebook than I do reading God's Word. My prayers get less energy than my rants about flags in NJ being flown at half-staff for Whitney Houston. Is it any wonder my circumstances are getting the best of me?

Francesca Battistelli has this great song I love called "This is the Stuff", and it speaks to the way God uses ordinary thing in our lives.
This is the stuff that drives me crazy.
This is the stuff that's getting to me lately.
In the middle of my little mess,
I forget how big I'm blessed.
Oh, this is the stuff
that gets under my skin;
But I've gotta trust, You know exactly what you're doing.
It might not be what I would choose,
but this is the stuff You use.
The lyrics are exactly correct. God uses everyday, commonplace "stuff" to teach us some pretty important lessons, but we have to be paying attention. We have to stay focused. It's just too easy to miss the bigger picture when your child is heart-broken over not making the soccer team or your father's health is failing and you're 600 miles away or your short-staffed and even shorter-tempered. ...But make no mistake; there is always a bigger picture to be seen. 

EVERY situation we face in life has the potential to make us more or less like Jesus. Becoming more like Him requires that we let some of those squirrels go.

~Maria

Tuesday, February 14, 2012

Make it a Day about LOVE

Did you score the candy this year? Maybe even get a bunch of flowers on your doorstep? Or, possibly, a new Audi in the driveway?

No? Hey, don't sweat it. It's Valentine's Day. It's consumerism and it's driven by romance and flowers. It isn't really about love, friends. It's about romance~ the kind women love. The stuff that every sappy chick flick is based on. Don't get me wrong...I LOVE a good romance film. The Notebook? Oh yeah. What girl doesn't want a man who will be a bird with her? :-)   I'll bet, if there's a romantic bone in your body, you've stormed out of a fight with your boyfriend or husband and were appalled that he didn't follow you into the rain to grab you and hold you close, never noticing the thunder and lightning because he was so lost in your eyes. Sound familiar? You bet. And you know why? Because that's romantic and beautiful and it feels SOOO nice to feel needed.

That's Valentine's Day. That's romantic love.

But real love is more complicated. It's complicated by personalities, mistakes, oversights, burnt chicken, weak coffee, a mailbox full of bills and in-laws. Sometimes we forget that love keeps us there and not romance. Love sees past the quirks and bad moods. Love rolls its eyes at the toothpaste left in the sink and the socks on the floor. Love forgives someone when they hurt you and love prefers honesty over the fairytale. Romance is content with the fairytale and will flounder under honesty...unless love is present.

Look around. You are surrounded by people who love you. Friends, family, children, spouse...you are blessed with love. You are loved by your Creator. YOU are loved and there is no greater gift.

If you find romance today, embrace it and enjoy it to its fullest. If you find love, never let it go.

Proverbs 10:12  Hatred starts fights, but love pulls a quilt over the bickering.
Proverbs 15:17  Better a bread crust shared in love than a slab of prime rib served in hate.
Proverbs 17:9  Love prospers when a fault is forgiven, but dwelling on it separates close friends 
Song of Solomon 2:16  My lover is mine, and I am his.
Matthew 22:37  Jesus replied, "You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind. 

Thursday, February 9, 2012

The Clay and The Potter

Today, feeling led to share what I wrote on my personal blog this morning...seems so appropriate for a blog entitled "Unending Faith". 

This morning ~ well, in truth, for many mornings now~ I have felt the absence of God.
Don’t misunderstand me. I know He’s there. But His presence, normally evident and palpable, seems clouded. Veiled.
You know those dreams where you’re chasing something and you wake up before you reach whatever it was? That’s it. My need for Him is so obvious and yet He isn’t showing up. I’m chasing and He feels elusive.
Of course God isn’t avoiding me. Of course He is pained, watching me flounder and wrestle with the course of my life…and I take as much comfort in that as I did climbing into my dad’s lap as a scared little girl when the summer tornadoes would pass our midwest home. Faith. Faith is what sustains me.
Maybe He wants me to rely less on Him and more on what I know to be true in my heart. Maybe He wants me to realize that people aren’t always kind and they will fail us even when they didn’t intend to…or expect to. Maybe there are lessons here that I will never fully realize until we meet face to face. It is faith that assures me that that day will, indeed, come to pass.
Even in this place of struggle, I am so aware that I must come to an understanding that I am blessed through this trial. In James 1:2-4, it is written “Consider it a sheer gift, friends, when tests and challenges come at you from all sides. You know that under pressure, your faith-life is forced into the open and shows its true colors. So don’t try to get out of anything prematurely. Let it do its work so you become mature and well-developed, not deficient in any way.” I am trying. Admittedly, my own strength is weakening and I pray for an end to this complicated issue. Admittedly, His timing isn’t aligned with my own. Admittedly, I am trying to fix what isn’t mine to fix.
I feel a LOT like clay these days. 
And I don’t feel like being grateful about it.
But I am not alone. Veiled or not, He is there to see me through. He will never leave nor forsake me.
Be blessed. In all times.
Amy